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Does your partner blame you for everything?

Does your partner blame you for everything?

Do you feel like you have to walk on eggshells so your partner doesn't get angry?

Do you feel like you have to walk on eggshells so your partner doesn't get angry?

Do you know something is wrong in your relationship, but can't figure out what it is?

Do you know something is wrong in your relationship, but can't figure out what it is?

Find Peace and Freedom TODAY

Find Peace and Freedom TODAY

Thousands of people have had access to this information and are using it to find empowerment and freedom from the cycle of bullying and abuse.

In the Course

High quality videos with in-depth explanations - watch and rewatch.

PDF workbooks to support you and accelerate your learning.

Audio interviews with those who have broken the cycle. 

AND supplemental handouts to provide additional insight and clarity. 

You get SO MUCH MORE than any counseling session could provide. 

Can the Course Really Help?


Better than therapy


"Storybook of my entire life. The whole curriculum was so easy to follow and it flowed like a story written in real time. It was so easy to grasp. This is gonna change so many hurting people's lives. I'm so thankful for it. This was actually better than therapy to me. It was so well connected, the flow of information was precept upon precept. A road map to freedom."
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You truly understand

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"I am truly impressed by your insight. I have not met a ton of others who truly understand what is behind it all."
Diane B., registered psychotherapist

Frighteningly spot on

Diane B., registered psychotherapist

...frighteningly spot on, at least for my situation. Frightening in that I am seeing in black and white what was going on, how I was responding, and the reasons behind all of it...Please take the time to read the information Brandon has shared here, regardless of where you are in the process.

Will help a lot of people


"This will help a lot of people, I wish I had it years ago"



"I wish I had it 5 years ago."
Multiple Anonymous


Multiple Anonymous

"This is so helpful and you do a great job of spelling it out."
"Spot on."
"Amazing info."
"Oh wow. This makes perfect sense."
"Thank you for finding the words I've been looking for."
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Lightbulb moment

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"Wow. I've never heard it explained like that - lightbulb moment!!"
Melissa D.


Melissa D.

"Your modules are amazing."

Can You Relate?

‘Partner’ is used to mean any significant other - husband, boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, etc.

1.    Are you afraid of doing something to set your partner off? Does he/she get angry frequently?

2.    Do you make excuses for your partner (or their behavior) to other people?

3.    Does your partner yell at, criticize, mock, or demean you?

4.    Has your partner told you it’s your fault that your relationship isn’t working?

5.    Does your partner constantly complain about you, coworkers, their job, unfairness of life, or blame you or others for the problems in their life?

6.    Does your partner do things that suggest they believe everyone is out to get them, to take advantage of them?

7.    Does your partner seem to withhold affection or approval from you?

8.    Does your partner want to know where you are, what you’re doing, with whom you’re talking, but doesn’t want to share the same with you?

9.    Have you been accused by your partner of doing something you don’t do, (maybe even something your partner does)?

10. Do you find yourself trying to explain yourself, your behavior, or your thoughts to help them understand, only to have them use it against you?

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Even if you’ve tried to get help in the past and no one believed you or all you got was advice that didn't work, this course can help you stop the madness, regain your self esteem, and create a new dynamic STARTING TODAY.
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Tired of Walking on Eggshells?

  • 2
    Module 1: What You're Dealing With
  • 3
    Module 2: Something's Wrong, But I Can't Put My Finger On It
  • 4
    Module 3: Am I in a Relationship with a Bully?
    • Part 1
    • Part 2
    • Part 3
    • Part 4
    • Additional Signs and Red Flags
    • Module 3 Review
    • Supplement: JM's Story
    • Supplement: Real Life Example of Abuser Tactics, Email Exchange
  • 5
    Module 4: Why Do They Do That?
    • What's Going on Inside Your Partner
    • Module 4 Workbook
    • Protect the Ego at ALL Cost
    • Protect the Ego Through Control
    • Protect the Ego Through Fault Finding
    • Review
    • Supplement: Insights into the Abuser's Mind
    • Supplement: Elizabeth's Story
  • 6
    Module 5: Why the Relationship Never Gets Better (despite your best efforts)
    • Narcissist's Prayer
    • Module 5 Workbook
    • Sick Cycle
    • Why the Relationship Never Gets Better
    • Why It’s Hard to Get the Help You Need
    • Why You Might Be Unknowingly Contributing to the Cycle
    • Review
    • Supplement: Meg's Story
    • Additional Resources
  • 7
    Module 6: How Did This Happen?
    • Module 6 Workbook
    • How Did This Happen (to someone like me)?
    • So Really, How Did This Happen TO ME?
    • Supplement: Kelli's Story
    • Supplement: The Power of Words, a spiritual perspective
  • 8
    Module 7: What's Wrong with Me?
    • What's Wrong with Me?
    • Supplement: Journal
    • Review
  • 9
    Module 8: Boundaries, Your New Best Friend
    • Overview
    • Getting Clear on What Boundaries Are
    • Boundaries Example and Why They Work
    • Another Boundaries Example (coming soon)
    • Will They Really Work for Me? (coming soon)
    • The Ultimate Boundary
    • Module 8 Boundaries Supplement: sample phrases and more
  • 10
    Module 9: Where We've Been, Where We're Going (Coming Soon)
    • Where We've Been, Where We're Going
  • 11
    Module 10: Breaking Free of the Abuse (Coming Soon)
    • Overview
    • Reasons We Justify the Abuse
    • Breaking Free of the Abuse: How to Know it’s Time to Make a Change
    • Thoughts to Help You Break Free
  • 12
    Module 11: Healing (Coming Soon)
    • Module 11 Quiz
    • Overview
    • Healing Exercise
    • Continued Healing
    • Healing: Keeping it Together
  • 13
    Module 12: What Does Healthy Look Like? (Coming Soon)
    • Overview
    • What Does Healthy Look Like?
    • Stay Healthy

All 3 options include the comprehensive course PLUS an exclusive online community of support.

  • $9.00 first payment, $11.00 / month onwards

    Full Access to the Course

  • $159.00 first payment, $187.00 / month onwards

    Course + 1Hr/Month Coaching

  • $299.00 first payment, $374.00 / month onwards

    Course + 2Hrs/Month Coaching


Are you ready to:

  • Stop living in fear of your partner's reaction?

  • Regain confidence and self-esteem?

  • Create a whole new relationship dynamic starting TODAY?

Haven't you been walking on eggshells long enough?

Break Free

Your Coach for the Course

  • Brandon Pipkin

    President, 21 for 21

    Brandon Pipkin

    Brandon has trained, coached, and counseled people to better outcomes for the last 23 years, thousands of whom were tired of walking on eggshells. His insight and wisdom will help you move toward the peace and happiness you deserve. Not only does he speak with the authority of a counselor, he gets it from the inside, having dealt with many relationship bullies. He'll guide you through the process of self-discovery as you move from feeling hopeless to healing.

THIS COURSE DOES NOT PROVIDE MEDICAL ADVICE. Information on this website and in this course is provided for informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for the advice provided by your physician or other psychological professionals. You should not use the information on this website or in the course for diagnosing or treating a health or psychological problem or disease, or prescribing any medication or other treatment. Information provided on this website and the use of any products or services purchased from our website by you DOES NOT create a doctor-patient relationship between you and any advisor affiliated with the website.


  • How can I pay without my partner finding out?

    If you're in an abusive relationship, chances are you are being financially abused so you fear your partner finding the charge on the debit or credit card.

    Can you open a new credit card in just your name? Sign up for electronic statements that you access through the bank website so they don't send a paper statement to the house or electronic statement via email.

    If that won't work, do you have a friend who would be willing to use their credit card for the charge and you can pay them in cash? Or trade them for services (babysitting, house cleaning, dog walking, etc.)?

    You could also see if the local domestic violence shelter would be willing to sponsor the charge. Perhaps they have donors who would be willing to cover the cost.

  • How long will it take me to work through the course?

    This is a very comprehensive course. It is recommended that you treat each of the 12 modules like a counseling session, perhaps working through 1/week.

    You should work at your own pace and not rush it if you want lasting results.

  • Will the course really help me? I've tried to get help in the past...

    This is the most comprehensive, easiest to follow, most value-filled course on the subject. It took thousands of dollars and thousands of hours to acquire this knowledge, both through personal experience and piecing together the best information from competent counselors.

    It contains insights you won't find anywhere else, wisdom that will accelerate your journey and help ensure long-term emotional health.

    If you're not satisfied, simply cancel your subscription at any time.